Yo. im pretty much a "scene" kid everywhere i go. help with that?

life is really har don me sometimes. but sometimes its the best thing ever. but what really gets me is these labels that people put apon me like "emo" and "scene" and "gothic".

im just a regualr girl living my life. yes i do act and dress different than regular people but thats what sets me apart from them. it gets on mt nerves how pple tell me off. how pple talk behind my back. or how pple critize the way i look then try to copy it.

it makes me sick.

how can i stop all these pple from labeling me and others?

i want to have my owh unique style without anyone trying to take it away from me.

my style:skinny jeans, flats, short chopped hair,blue and purple highlights, leggings, legg warmers, big clips.

help?

Yo. im pretty much a "scene" kid everywhere i go. help with that?

*gasp* You have blue and purple highlights!?!? I envy you. But anyway about your question, if I was in your situation (which I pretty much am. For the most part my style is really different from yours, but I get called "emo" more than "scene" so whatever) I would tell the annoying people to **** off. Well maybe in nicer worlds, but still get the message across. There is this one girl, who is always bugging me and my best friend about our style. Never to our faces of course, she would like walk by and say something to her friend just loud enough for us to hear. I got sick of it really fast, and I said to one of my others friends if she starts bugging us again that I'd punch her in the face and tell her to mind her own business. The taunting girl must of over heard, or has decided to back off untill we have to go back to school cause I haven't heard anything lately. The point of this random story is, well for one there are times when threats work. Secondly you gotta stand up for yourself, you even said your getting sick at peoples moronic remarks so do something about it. Someone tries to tell you off tell them to shut up. Your fashion decisions shouldn't be any of their business. Yeah it should bitchy, but sometimes you gotta be a ***** if you ever want somethings to work out. Also you shouldn't really care about their remarks. Don't let them get to you. Same thing with labeling. The thing is you can't stop people from labeling, you may get them to stop coming up into your face to criticize you but they still might refer to you as "that emo girl." To labels I say screw 'em. Labels are just labels. They don't make who you are, lots of times labels are for good. But really if they are stupid labels, then just ignore them. Things like "emo" and "scene" and whatever else some idiot wants to call me doesn't get to me. No I'm not one of those "OMFGZRSQOPAIZ LABELS ARE FOR SOUP CANZZZZ!!!!11!!!!11ONE ONE" people I just don't give a damn what people who don't know me think about me. Who can they criticize me when they have no idea who I am. Alright this is getting long and I need to get cookies away from my cousin (children + New Year's = a big no no). I hope my long winded ramble helped you out somehow. Sorry for any spelling mistakes too, spell check takes too long when you write a novel like I did.

Yo. im pretty much a "scene" kid everywhere i go. help with that?

stop labeling yourself as scene and stop caring. they'll nevr stop so just say f*ck them

Yo. im pretty much a "scene" kid everywhere i go. help with that?

God, what pressure........

Ignore them and grow-up. In the adult world u have so much other stuff to deal with. I wish I ONLY had to worry about how I dressed and whatever.....

Yo. im pretty much a "scene" kid everywhere i go. help with that?

be confident for who u are and they will not make fun of u. everyone have their own right to wear what they want, and how she does her hair, etc

many guys like 'emo' girls, they think their stylish, unique, etc so u shouldnt be ashamed of who u are even tho people like trying to put u down

*cheers

Yo. im pretty much a "scene" kid everywhere i go. help with that?

Don't worry so much about what other people think. I am probably the last person that should be telling you this because I struggle with the same thing but i think you would be so much more happier if you refuse to be affected by the labels of others.

Yo. im pretty much a "scene" kid everywhere i go. help with that?

Think what u want, dress how you want, and stop giving a sh*t about what other's expect from you.

Anyone who isn't a society peon has had to deal with adversity from those who can only live the way they're told to.

I'm Black, Irish, Scottish, German, and people assume that I listen to Fifty Cent and other people that are a disgrace to the Black race; and when I tell them why I don't they assume I'm an uncle tom. Why? Because I'm not their view of what a Black person should be?

I'm proud of all my ancestry, Black and White, and even though I tell people I'm half and half, they see me as just "The Black Kid." It's like slapping all the people on my white side of the family in the face.

I have cool friends, popular friends, unpopular friends, goth friends, and anime nerd friends.

Stop giving a sh*t about what others think, and make friends with other people who do the same.

Yo. im pretty much a "scene" kid everywhere i go. help with that?

Well you sound happy to be who you are. Leave it that way, besides most day jobs require that you dress some way, so enjoy it now! Find people who like you just the way you are if you feel you need some reassurance. I think later in life you'll really be proud of yourself for being yourself when you are younger. I'm at that point right now.

Yo. im pretty much a "scene" kid everywhere i go. help with that?

Unfortunetely, you can't stop people from labeling you. You choose to look the way you do, so you should deal with people labeling you. People are always going to label you no matter what. You should learn to deal with it.