Is this proper treatment?

My boyfriend and I have been broken for a few mos. He had been hanging out in bars at least 4-5 times a week. I have found girls #'s on his caller ID, face wash and hair clips in his bathroom, and a pair of nurses scrubs in his drawer. He says they belong to his daughter's friends or some BS like that. I don't believe him. I'm afraid of having sex w/ him, although I have a few times because I was pressured, but I made him wear protection. He got all pissed off and showed his A**. He says I have a phobia and that the only way to get over it is to have unprotected sex w/ him and move past this (we want to get married and possibly have a child). But right now, I don't trust him and I can't make myself do it. Is this proper treatment for a phobia, if I have one, or is he trying to get what HE wants, as usual? Should I dump him? aa

Is this proper treatment?

so you let yourself be forced in having sex with him while you were having a break,seems almost like rape to me.....this guy is a dad aswell???and he is using his daughter and her friends as some cheap stupid excuse.....very very very silly and irresponsible.You are absolutely right to not trust this guy who gets mad when you want to be responsible and have protected intercourse.....DUMP HIM asap

Is this proper treatment?

you are smart to make him use a condom. since there is so much std's out there. if he is pushing you to have unprotected sex just dump him.